I recently had a conversation with a seasoned, career
spiritual director whose husband is a Christian research scientist. As
colleague spiritual directors, she and I conversed for some time about the
nature of spiritual care with those who do not believe (or who do not think
they believe) in God. It is something I had been thinking about for awhile. Her
husband runs easily in that crowd, and since she and he share an active social
life with his associates, many of them know what she does and I wondered about
her experience in that regard.
Here’s a story she shared with me.
One of her husband’s friends who says he’s an atheist casually
came up to her at a gathering and told her, “Please, I don’t want to hear any
of that god s**t from you.” She responded politely she’d have no trouble being
a friend.
Some time later, he and she were engaged in a conversation
and it turned toward an experience he had had recently at the ocean shore. He was standing
on the end of one of those
long Los Angeles-area piers, and it was surrounded
by jellyfish, hundreds of them, pulsating as they do, hovering just below the
surface of the water. He was completely mesmerized, and found them so amazingly
beautiful, even ethereal, that it brought him to tears right then and there. Even
as he described it to her he choked back emotion. “What’s that all about, Kris?”
he asked. She replied, “I’m not exactly sure what to say to you, as I happen to
believe it has something to do with that God s**t...”
Several months ago I spoke at a retreat
about nature as one
of the many spiritual pathways people engage in a meaningful journey toward
God. There are numerous reasons why nature can serve men and women in this way,
and I shared several of them. One is the nature of gratitude: there is
something in us that needs someone or something to thank, something bigger than
us, whatever it is. Philosophers and thinkers, Christian or not, have long said
that the need for a human to express gratitude, even if its focus at the outset
is to ‘the fates’ or to ‘mother earth,’ is an important step toward the
possibility of a more informed spirituality. That’s one of the reasons why I
often ask you to share this blog with others you know, Christ follower or not,
who may themselves find nature a critical step along their way to a greater
God-consciousness.
Philosophers have long said that the
need for a human to express gratitude is
an important step toward the possibility
of a more informed spirituality...
Back to the man of whom my new friend spoke. I pray he is on
his way to recognize that there is One constantly ready to share his experience
of beauty, to receive his thanks, One he can find has been waiting for that
recognition by him all along.
~~ RGM, May 4, 2016
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